Yes straight white male’s I’m now TRANS deal with it !

It’s time to educate you and to help cure you of your bigotry, ignorance, and hatred for trans people, so I’ve decided to come out to my friends, family and person of color boyfriend Remington as being Female 2 Female trans.

It’s something I’ve been struggling with all my life, but coming out as being F2F trans has really elevated me in my social justice group meetings and everyone there was so supportive. (When I say everyone I include people who identify as being more than one person.)

I became tearful at my coming out meeting, and spoke about my love for Barbie dolls, but how I used to like them to drive in my brothers army trucks, instead of Barbie’s pink car, because even at that age, I really knew that I was a young woman, but felt trapped inside a young woman’s body.

It was never easy for me at school, I often felt oppressed by rigid heteronormative gender expectations placed upon me which forced me to do things like attend school, or do my homework.

My person of color boyfriend Remington seemed shocked and agitated, and asked if I used to be a man, and started slowly reaching for something he kept hidden on his belt under his clothes when I came out as being trans to him.

I think I know what it was. I had given up the only opportunity I had to marry him, because I’m sure that it was an engagment ring, but he’d just strapped it to his belt for safe keeping. But that’s just the kind of oppressive heartbreaking stuff we trans people must go through.

I later explained to him that I was born a female, but am now transitioning back into being a woman, from a woman.

He then breathed a sigh of relief and kindly told me how lucky I was.

I know he accepts me now, because he thinks I’m lucky to be trans. What a great guy and a wonderful boyfriend.

6 thoughts on “Yes straight white male’s I’m now TRANS deal with it !

  1. The “FtF transgender” concept implies that gender is clear-cut and well-defined.

    Gender is a multidimensional spectrum, and not a set of discrete states. I disagree with this notion of this seemingly null transition. This could just fall under the “genderqueer” group.

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  2. Friggin brilliant! And so brave and stunning.
    My wife is also a trans-transwoman and far more oppressed than cis-transwomen.
    Good luck to you!

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    1. Oppressed because that literally negates the point of being transgender, and it’s pointless.

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  3. I am confused 🤷🏼‍♀️ you wrote, “I often felt oppressed by rigid heteronormative gender expectations placed upon me which forced me to do things like attend school, or do my homework.” Ok first off, this is not a “rigid heteronormative gender expectation” this is an “everyone you attends school expectation”. Second, how do you transition from a female to a female? Are you saying you are transitioning from a white woman to a Woman person of color? Ummm you are white, born white and will always be white. You are insulting other races by trying to “transition” to their race. Uhh I can’t with you extreme radical feminists and liberal extremists! I am a democrat, supporter of gay rights, black lives matter, equal rights for women and support so many important issues in our country that need to be recognized. But all this shit on your page is insane! You make “normal” liberals look like idiots when you post this crap. Oh lastly you also referred to “people who identify as being more than one person.” ummm that is also know as schizophrenia. This blog is horrible. I want to stop reading but the shock factor is so high that I can’t!

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